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[Matrikulasi] Nice Homework #8: Misi Hidup dan Produktivitas

Tidak terasa, Kelas Matrikuasi IIP ini sudah sampai pada materi #8, yag tentunya diikuti oleh NHW #8. Menarik sekali bagaimana antara NHW ke NHW saling berkaitan dan berkesinambungan membentuk suatu proses penemuan jati diri hingga menjadi manusia yang memahami misi hidupnya, profesional dalam perannya, serta produktif dalam memberi manfaat di kehidupannya. NHW #8 ini pun didasarkan pada NHW-NHW sebelumnya.

Bunda, setelah di materi #8 kita belajar tentang bagaimana pentingnya menemukan misi hidup untuk menunjang produktivitas keluarga. Maka saat ini kita akan lebih menggali bagaimana menerapkannya secara teknis sbb:

a. Ambil salah satu dari ranah aktivitas yang sudah teman-teman tulis di kuadran SUKA dan BISA (lihat NHW #7)
Memperhatikan kembali NHW #7 yang saya kerjakan, sepertinya ada beberapa kemiripan dalam aktivitas SUKA dan BISA yang saya tulis. Akhirnya, saya memtuskan untuk mengambil aktivitas: Menulis cerita.

b. Setelah ketemu satu hal, jawablah pertanyaan “BE DO HAVE” di bawah ini:

1. Mental seperti apa yang harus anda miliki untuk menjadi seperti yang anda inginkan? (BE)
Saya ingin berbagi banyak hal melalui cerita. Sesuai dengan Misi Hidup yang saya tulis di NHW #4, semoga cerita bisa menjadi salah satu media saya untuk mengedukasi dan menginspirasi. Fokus utamanya pun masih seputar pengasuhan dan pendidikan anak. Jadi dalam bayangan saya cerita yang saya buat ditujukan untuk dua kalangan: orangtua dan anak-anak.

Untuk dapat menjadi seorang penulis cerita yang produktif, tentu saya harus sangat disiplin dengan manajemen waktu saya. Jadwal harian yang mencakup waktu belajar berbagai ilmu yang menunjang, serta latihan yang penting saya lakukan guna menambah jam terbang, perlu sungguh-sungguh saya taati. Penuh kesabaran, keikhlasan, pantang menyerah, berkomitmen tinggi pada tujuan.

2. Apa yang harus anda lakukan untuk menjadi seperti yang anda harapkan? (DO)
Selain sikap mental yang telah saya tulis di atas, saya harus:
– Belajar, antara lain: Ilmu tentang kepenulisan, story telling, pendidikan dan pengasuhan anak; baik melalui workshop online dan offline, komunitas, penulis lain, artikel, maupun buku-buku yang terkait.

– Membaca berbagai buku yang genrenya sejenis, misalnya buku anak-anak, buku drama keluarga.

– Berlatih menulis dan membuat cerita setiap hari.

3. Apa yang akan anda lakukan apabila anda sudah memiliki yang anda harapkan? (HAVE)
Karena saya ingin menjadi penulis cerita, yang saya harapkan untuk saya miliki adalah buku cerita karya saya sendiri. Fokus pertama saya adalah buku anak.

Apabila sudah berhasil menerbitkan buku anak pertama saya, saya akan menggunakannya sebagai sarana untuk mengedukasi dan menginspirasi orang lain. Selain membacakannya untuk anak-anak saya sendiri, saya juga akan menyumbangkan sebagiannya ke sekolah-sekolah atau panti asuhan dan membacakannya di sana. Agar semakin banyak anak yang tertarik dengan buku, senang membaca dan belajar, bahkan mungkin juga menulis buku mereka sendiri suatu saat nanti. Saya juga akan terus menulis cerita-cerita lain dan berbagi dengan lebih banyak orang.

c. Perhatikan 3 aspek dimensi waktu di bawah ini dan isilah:

1. Apa yang ingin kita capai dalam kurun waktu kehidupan kita (lifetime purpose)
Kembali pada misi hidup yang saya tulis dalam NHW #4: “Menumbuhkan kesadaran hingga pemahaman melalui edukasi dan menyebarkan inspirasi melalui praktik baik yang dilakukan.” dalam bidang pengasuhan dan pendidikan anak (khususnya pentingnya anak cinta belajar dan membaca buku).

Saya ingin semakin banyak orang, khususnya orangtua, pengasuh, dan pendidik, belajar mencintai dengan lebih baik, menyadari besarnya peran mereka bagi perkembangan dan masa depan generasi selanjutnya. Karenanya, penting untuk terus belajar dan mewariskan kesenangan belajar pada anak-anak, sehingga menjadi pembelajar sepanjang hayat (life long learner). Menumbuhkan kecintaan pada buku merupakan salah satunya. Saya pun ingin menjadi bagian dari orangtua itu dan menginspirasi orang lain melalui proses yang saya lakukan sebagai orangtua pembelajar. Selain melalui cerita-cerita yang saya tulis dan bagikan.

2.Apa yang ingin kita capai dalam kurun waktu 5-10 tahun ke depan (strategic plan)
Sesuai dengan milestone yang saya tulis pada NHW #4, dalam kurun waktu 6 tahun, saya ingin sudah menguasai ilmu-ilmu yang diperlukan untuk menjalankan misi hidup saya, lebih spesifiknya sebagai penulis cerita.

Saya ingin sudah menerbitkan beberapa buku anak dan buku cerita tentang pengasuhan dan mengisi berbagai perpustakaan sekolah atau panti asuhan dengan buku-buku berkualitas, termasuk buku yang saya tulis sendiri. Bahkan juga membuka rumah baca saya sendiri.

3. Apa yang ingin kita capai dalam kurun waktu satu tahun (new year resolution)
Dalam waktu satu tahun, saya ingin sudah berhasil mengikuti jadwal harian dan checklist indikator dengan disiplin, sehingga waktu saya terkelola dengan efektif. Saya ingin menguasai ilmu sesuai milestone tahun pertama dan sudah menerbitkan paling tidak satu buku cerita anak.

Mulailah dengan PERUBAHAN, karena pilihannya hanya satu BERUBAH atau KALAH

Salam Ibu Profesional,

/Tim Matrikulsi IIP/

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2015 Best Nine

2015 had been an amazing year for me. So many life-changing events happened almost out of the blue. ‘God’s plan’ is the best way I could use to explain it all.

The “Best Nine” pictures from Instagram below might give you a glimpse of my “life parade”.

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So, in short, I met this man that turned into my husband 7 months later and then became the father of our daughter 9 months after.

I actually got married in December 2014, but let just say that everything beginning to get more exciting on the year after that.

In 2015…
I moved out of my parents’ house to his parents’ house.
One of my sisters got married.
I found out that I’m pregnant.
My sister found out that she’s pregnant.
My grandma fell and broke her thigh :'(
My uncle got a stroke and was in a comma because of it :((
My uncle passed away four months later T_T
My beautiful daughter was born.
My pretty niece was born.

In words, it just looks like a few simple sentences, but in real life it feels like an earthquake of emotions, changes, and consequences.

I do have a struggle dealing with all those events (yes, even the happy ones), I too have a hard time adjusting now and then.

I think everyone has their own struggle, it could be something that seems like nothing for someone else, but it could be hard for the one who’s having the battle. I like this quote: “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” (some said it’s from Plato).

Back to 2015, it’s behind us now. It’s still astonishing looking back, and despite of all the hardship, the biggest feeling I have is gratitude.

Let’s see what’s the best nine of 2016 :)

*) This post was planned to be finished and published in January 2016, but time deceived me. So here I am, in the middle of the year, doing my regular job at the office, can’t wait to go home to my 9 month old daughter

Reading Update

So I start reading the fantasy novel today. My choice fell on The Infernal Devices Series: Clockwork Angel by Cassandra Clare, which is the prequel of The Mortal Instrument Series.

Like what I’ve mention here, hopefully this would be the door to go back to the reading like crazy world. I will start with 50 pages a day.

What are you reading right now? Feel free to share on the comment section 😀 (please).

 

How Do You Write a Review?

After more than four years, I found that I mostly post about book reviews in this blog.

The reason to that, I think, is because I love to read and I like to share what I’ve read.

I use to discuss the book that I read with my sisters. Especially if we all have read the book and found it interesting, or when I read a book and I want them to read it, either for the knowledge or nice stories in it I thought they should know.

We could spent hours to discuss a book. About how the story goes (how surprising, or how we disagree), about the characters in the book (how we love or hate them), about how true some of the wisdom that lies in it, how we learn from the book, how we amaze of how the writer comes up with such ideas and put them into words.

One thing that I know would make me like a book and wanting to discuss about it is how it make me feel. That is what my review is mostly about too.

I’m not an expert of how to write a good review. What should or should not be in it. I don’t know that much about technicality as some other people do. What a good book should, technically, consist of. I might not even read as many books as some avid readers do, to have a masive insight and comparison or knowledge about genres and stuff (see, I don’t even know what to name it).

I just write a review based on how I feel about the book (or film, or place, or event). Any detailed that follows is to describe the feeling.

There are books that open my eyes, shaking my minds with some new point of views that I never thought before. There are books telling me some stuff I’ve heard before with some different kind of ways. There are books that make me understand things better or completed my previous knowledge; connecting the dots. There are books that open up my imagination, bring me to places I’ve never been. Books that make me laugh and cry, inspired and motivated.

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I’m pretty easy to please. I might dislike a book, but, so far, never hate it. I always try to finish what I started to read, no matter how boring it may be. In most of the cases I eventually enjoy the book or got something from it. So, yes, I believe that we should give books a chance like we should give people chances to show the good side of them.

It is more challenging, however, to write a review than simply discuss it with my sisters. The review is in english, first of all. Then, I need to find the right words to describe some of the many things I want to share, in one single post (instead of bubbling every now and then about random pieces of the book). And the hardest part is: I should watch out for spoilers! ;D

That is why, I didn’t write reviews as much as I read. But I’m planning to write more.

I think sharing what you’ve read is helping you to have a better memory and understanding about it. It’s also a good practice to express your thought.

How about you? How do you review a book? What do you think should or should not be in it?

I would also like to hear your opinion about the reviews I’ve wrote so far. The comment box is open for you. Thanks! :)

Ketika Mas Gagah Pergi dan Kembali

“Ketika Mas Gagah Pergi” (When Mas Gagah’s Gone) was a short story written by Helvy Tiana Rosa. It was first published on 1993 in a magazine named Annida. It’s been published as an anthology by two publishers on 1997 and 2000 before it was published by Asmanadia Publishing House on 2011. This time, the short story combined with another one called “Lelaki Tak Bernama” (A Man with No Name), becoming a novelette. That’s why the anthology then titled “Ketika Mas Gagah Pergi dan Kembali” (When Mas Gagah’s Gone and Return).

There are 14 other short stories in the book. Since all of the stories in the book were published in Annida first, and I use to read the magazine a lot, this is not the first time I read them all. It doesn’t bored me though. I like it then, and I like it now. Every single one of them.

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Each story inside the book touches me. Some even manage to put some tears in my eyes. The stories are simple, yet has somewhat meaningful message in them. They make me think about life. What it’s all about, what’s really matter.

It’s nice to read those stories again all at once. Reminds me of good values of life in a beautiful way.

I love this one note from Mas Gagah to his sister on her birthday. For me, it’s not only the soul of the novelette, but also the spirit of the entire book.

“…Dan jadilah muslimah sejati (…And be a true muslimah)
yang selalu mengedepankan nurani (who always puts concience first/ listen to her concience)
Agar Allah selalu besertamu (So Allah always be with you)
Ingat Islam itu indah… (Remember that Islam is beatiful…)
Islam itu cinta… (Islam is love…)
Kalau kau tak setuju pada suatu kebaikan, (If you don’t agree in one kindness)
yang mungkin belum kau pahami, (that you might not yet understand)
kau selalu bisa menghargainya…” (you can always appreciate it…)

Filosofi Kopi

“Filosofi Kopi” (the coffee philosophy) is an anthology of proses and short stories that is written by Dewi “Dee” Lestari in a decade (1995-2005).

There are 18 literary works in it and I love them all!

I like how the writer using words. Her choices of words, the rhymes and rhythms, the metaphors. I like how she forms stories and proses with those words. I think it’s beautiful. It’s deep and meaningful.

“Filosofi Kopi”, which becomes the title of the book, is the first story in the anthology. It is a story about a man named Ben who is crazy about coffee that he goes around the world to taste every kind of coffee and learn about them. He then becomes an expert barista and with his best friend Jodi, run a coffee house.

Filosofi Kopi

The small coffee house get famous. It’s known by the name Filosofi Kopi and its variation of good coffee with a philosophy for each of them (the tagline of the coffee house is: “Temukan Diri Anda di Sini” – “Find Yourself Here”).

Ben was so proud of his coffee until a man come and make him learn a thing that change his life.

Reading the story makes me want to drink some coffee 😀

It’s a great opener. Being the title and put in the first pages of the book, I think it would be the main star of it. But the next stories and proses is just as great. Like I said before, I love them all.

If I have to choose my favorite, “Salju Gurun” and “Spasi” is definitely the ones that light up something in me. I also like “Cetak Biru” and “Kunci Hati”. I can’t forget the surprise in “Lara Lana”. I fond of “Mencari Herman”, “Budha Bar” and “Sikat Gigi”. And of course, “Filosofi Kopi”. (I told you I love them all :p)

I would say that just like the philosophy in Ben’s coffee, each literature in this anthology has its own philosophy. You got to enjoy it like you enjoy the smell of coffee.

Drink the coffee, enjoy the anthology, feel the beauty, absorb the philosophy.